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I can't make myself orgasm
Replies: 10 — Last Post Nov. 20, 2008 1:21pm by Anonymous
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My boyfriend has been trying to make me orgasm and i told him he did twice.. but i dont think he did.

i feel like if i knew how to do it myself, i could make it work for him too? so.. how do i go about doing this.... thanks

10:23 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
Ariella Starr


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Some girls can't get an orgasm. >_>
Try new positions, and experiment. Play with yourself to find out what you like.
And direct him, because if you don't tell him what you like.
He'll never know.

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Ill help maybe you will then.

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How old are you? According to Dr. Drew a lot of girls aren't able to orgasm until well into their 20's!

Experiment and eventually you'll get to that point.

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some people never experiance a real orgasum u just need to explore a little try playing with each other a while teasing before u dive straight in with the sex
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Quote: from lostwitness at 1:26 am on Nov. 20, 2008
How old are you? According to Dr. Drew a lot of girls aren't able to orgasm until well into their 20's!
Dr.Drew is a complete moron. I once watched him suggest that a woman had been molested simply based on the sound of her voice. Because he blieved her voice sounded, and I quote "Like a nine year old".

Post edited at 10:39 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 by EndLess LoVe

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Quote: from glovd001 at 10:25 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
Ill help maybe you will then.

shut up

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Quote: from EndLess LoVe at 11:35 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from lostwitness at 1:26 am on Nov. 20, 2008
How old are you? According to Dr. Drew a lot of girls aren't able to orgasm until well into their 20's!
Dr.Dre is a complete idiot. I once watched him suggest that a woman had been molested simply based on the sound of her voice. Because he blieved her voice sounded, and I quote "Like a nine year old".

That is legitimate. Dr. Drew is completely right that many woman's voices sound like children's if they have been raped as a child. It can be explained very rationally. Though it's not always because of rape.

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Im tired of Dr. Drew too.
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Find your clit, if you haven't already, and try rubbing that gently (or harder as you like it, but if you apply too much pressure it might hurt)
Experiment with what feels good. Penetration is not the only (or most likely) way for you to orgasm
Be honest with your boyfriend and let him know that you're not sure if you orgasmed because you've never had one before. Better to let him know now than wait until he thinks he can do it all the time
If you really get stuck and can't orgasm, buy a clit vibrator and use it for a while- that's pretty much the easiest way to orgasm ever.
good luck!
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Quote: from islandgirl at 3:26 am on Nov. 20, 2008
Find your clit, if you haven't already, and try rubbing that gently (or harder as you like it, but if you apply too much pressure it might hurt)
Experiment with what feels good. Penetration is not the only (or most likely) way for you to orgasm
Be honest with your boyfriend and let him know that you're not sure if you orgasmed because you've never had one before. Better to let him know now than wait until he thinks he can do it all the time
If you really get stuck and can't orgasm, buy a clit vibrator and use it for a while- that's pretty much the easiest way to orgasm ever.
good luck!

Thanks!

1:21 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
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